Relationship Q and A – continued

Hey, today I am continuing and finishing this blog. Sis has to be grounded and finish which she started. In the first post I did say that I am not a dating disaster but neither am I a guru at it. I still maintain the following disclaimer – LEST YOU DECIDE TO TAKE AWAY SOME ‘WORDS OF WISDOM’ THAT IS TOTALLY AT YOUR OWN FREE WILL AND AT YOUR OWN RISK…DO NOT SAY YOU WERE NEVER WARNED.

 Without wasting time, here we go!

HAVE I EVER BEEN IN A TEXT RELATIONSHIP? (will I consider it?)

Ah! The textlationship. Haven’t we all? If not, well, I have. 95% of my relationships before Uni were all text based. Yip! The whole relationship started and ended on the phone, and it was with boys who were pretty close by and we could have easily met up. I remember I once got in a text relationship with a boy who lived near my hood. Zange! Zange! We only got to meet when we accidently bumped into each other years after the mjolo. Does that count as online dating? Does it? 

I don’t have a lot of reasons as to why I was comfortable dating on texts except: I was legit scared of boys. I honestly thought meeting with boys meant having sex and guess what…I fear(ed) that sh*t. I would make excuses to avoid meeting up and it would only be a matter of time before they gave up then hit the block and delete buttons and on to the next!

And no! I will never be in one again in my life because sis is here for all the physical attention *wink wink* *nudge nudge*

HOW UPSET WILL I BE IF WE BREAK UP?

I honestly don’t know but then again it depends on who initiates the break up and what circumstances led to that. If I do something stupid and he breaks up with me I’d be devastated of course. But sometimes we cannot overestimate the relief that comes with the split up.

WHAT ARE SOME CHARACTER TRAITS THAT I LOOK FOR IN A SIGNIFICANT OTHER?

It has to be:-

• How they treat women in general
• How he talks and treats his or her family
• They are aware that they have a future…you don’t just live phela.
• Has solid friendships
• Is not manipulative etc

THE END…