My worst pet peeves that grind relationships

Heya!

Still on the relationship mode, today I want to tell y’all about my pet peeves in romantic relationships.

Granted, it would be absolutely awesome if your significant other just somehow managed to absolutely never annoy you but that’s never the case. Even in the best relationships, it’s inevitable that your partner is going to do one thing or another to get on your nerves sometimes. Having things that your partner does and they annoy you, according to me is totally normal.

You know those first few months of mjolo where he or she is the absolute best?  Then, everything changes. You start to notice things about the other person that aren’t so perfect, some even bug you or drive you crazy. This is a good time to remember that nobody’s perfect, even yourself you have faults…you know what this post is losing its plot. I am not going to give you advice on how to deal with those annoyances or any of that nonsense. Let’s dive right into the things that annoy me the most when it comes to relationships. 

• Not following through on a commitment

Best believe nothing annoys me like not keeping your word. If we agree on a certain thing and you don’t follow through…mark me absent. I might ask or bring it up two or three times; after that I am done. If it’s something that I can do for myself, I will go ahead; if its not…we move. I will not bring it up again. 

• Comparing me or us to other people

Especially your exes. Nywe nywe look at who and who, they don’t do like that. Yhuu bhudi!!! 

• Being too friendly with your exes 

I am not friendly with my exes. If anything; I don’t like talking to them…why should you? Maybe I am being unreasonable but really, what’s there to meet and talk about? I mean you can be on good terms, not bad vibes whatsoever, but to be actually friends? Sesdlala yini… Mistrust and jealousy are real b*****s. 

• Not taking care of yourself

If you are a regular degular here on this blog, then you will know I have tad bit touched on taking care of yourself. You may not be the prettiest but surely you can tlean (clean) up and look presentable…even with that one pair of shoe. Take care of yourself!

• Not cleaning up after snusnu 

Crucify me all you want, but oh boy you must take care of that sheep skin and its wrapper. To let it just lying there seems disrespectful, both to me and yourself. I would go deep but I think you get my point. 

• Over apologizing 

This outright annoys me. I mean if we talk about the problem at hand and we cool about it…why keep apologizing? This takes us back to square one. 

• If I say its cool, then its cool 

Honestly, sibadala. I have no reason to say I am okay or it’s cool when it’s not. 

NB:- Please don’t ask me about last week’s continuation…its COMING!