When l leave home ..for good.

I wonder…will it be a happy moment or a sad embarassing one. When l leave home ,will my family be proud- maybe l got a job which requires me to relocate..a scholarship OR will my clothes ,those few clothes be thrown out of the gate and commanded to follow them? Maybe l wont get those clothes  ..
But no  family can throw away their own, or can they ? Is it legal …am confused
Lol ,am not making sense ..